what I find to be most rewarding being a

divorce attorney is that I tend to meet

people at the worst time in their lives

they’re sad they may be broken they may

be angry but as we go through the

divorce process I tend to see a shift in

them they get better they get stronger

they get healthy and they’re an entirely

different person at the end of the

divorce it’s so rewarding to take that

Journey with them

so the one piece of advice that I give

to my family law clients who have

children

is this love your children more than you

dislike your spouse a lot of people

tend they don’t do it intentionally but

they tend to take out their emotions

about their soon-to-be ex-spouse on

their children and again it’s not it’s

not intentional but it happens and I

constantly find myself repeating that

line to my clients so that I can ground

them and Center them a little bit better

it really brings them back down to earth

so that they s they they stop involving

their children in the divorce because

as much as children are part of a

divorce they shouldn’t they shouldn’t be

collateral damage