Mediation & Collaborative Divorce Attorney in Sacramento, California

What role do you play in a divorce mediation?

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so the difference in the attorney’s role
in mediation and collaborative is that
in in mediation the lawyer is not
representing either party so their their
role is not um advising the parties
their role is to neutrally um get an
agreement and so they will do so by
informing the parties of what the law is
and you know what a court would do often
times but they’re not there to help them
to decide or to advise them as to what
would be in their interest collaborative
is is not that way you each party does
have their own attorney who is assisting
them and helping them to determine their
interest and create interest-based
decisions and in doing that um the law
is brought in because it is an informed
process but it’s brought in carefully
and not in a way that creates polarity
so the way that we usually do it in
collaborative is both attorneys get
together let’s say there’s a particular
legal issue the lawyers get together and
discuss it and then it’s brought forward
by both lawyers in terms of here’s what
the law is and here’s what the range of
possibilities are so that the parties
have the spectrum of of um of potentials
and then they can choose to go with the
law or not go with the law that’s the
beauty of collaborative is you there’s a
lot more creativity that’s available for
creating Solutions than just the law
model however it you know it is an
informed process so the law is brought
in so the lawyer’s role is to bring in
the law and to assist in supporting the
parties in creating interest based
Solutions and then obviously creating
the paperwork and the the contracts that
are necessary to complete the divorce
process

Sacramento, CA family law attorney Mary Molinaro talks about the role she plays in a divorce mediation. The primary difference in an attorney’s role between mediation and collaborative law is that, in mediation, the lawyer does not represent either party. Instead of providing advice, the lawyer’s role is to remain neutral and work toward an agreement. This is often done by informing both parties about the relevant legal standards and typical court outcomes, without guiding them toward specific interests or decisions.

In collaborative law, however, each party is represented by their own attorney who actively supports them in identifying their interests and creating interest-based solutions. While the legal framework is integrated into the process to ensure informed decision-making, it is introduced in a way that minimizes conflict.

When a specific legal issue arises in collaborative law, both attorneys may consult together, and then jointly present the legal framework and range of possible outcomes to both parties. This approach provides the parties with a full spectrum of options, allowing them to decide whether to follow the legal guidelines or explore alternative solutions. This flexibility is a significant advantage of the collaborative model, as it allows for more creative resolutions beyond strict legal constraints.

Despite this flexibility, the collaborative process remains grounded in legal principles. The attorney’s role includes bringing in relevant legal information as needed, supporting interest-based solutions, and preparing the necessary documentation to finalize the divorce.

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